Not his fault

I realise that I was pulling my own strike chord when a friend said "whatever he does would be his fault, not yours" and not letting it settle. I was angered by how I felt. Even angrier after looking back and seeing all the holes that didn't make sense.

God be watching over me, I sat there in silence and gathered enough courage to dip my thoughts to a very black ink pool. Mentally listing the things he should've done and the things he shouldn't if he really did, with non-existing conviction; I let baby lucifer do his job. That's when I realised it.

I finally caught back my smile and said, "I guess I don't want him to be at fault."

It's beautiful

I have a friend who recently had to go through the late-sleep-something-on-mind torment because some guy, who, I'd seriously say thought he was giving her a compliment, said she was "hot."

In case you still don't understand; the word is beautiful. Or pretty. Or whatever else that would make her have the slightest momentary delusion that you are looking neck deep and up. Don't get me wrong, I believe physical attraction is core essential, but only for the purpose of luring you into what is quintessential. And to all the guys that say they didn't do so and so because they don't want to make the ladies think they're putting up a front; I say--- put up a front! Say the right things and do the wanted-expected because those would be the least of our bliss when we start our love-hate relationship.

Like I was saying, I sincerely believe that the guy in question thought he was giving her a reason to blush. But guys, please keep "hot" and "bomb" for the trailer and RnB lyrics. Even "sexy" and "fine" sound disrespecting, in my opinion. It's not the words per se, but would it hurt to mirror her a little self-respect and make her love herself more? I don't think you guys understand how long a little compliment can take us. Why do you think all women in love look so beautiful?

Think, guys. Please.